Monday, October 14, 2013

"Learning" - Letter, October 14, 2013

Ok, so this week has been a great week as far as learning new things. We have both learned a few things that have been very helpful to us.

1. Deer DON'T Stop: Last night we went to a less active's home. We love the Rednours. They live way out in the sticks. In fact, they live the farthest away from us. But on our way home, it was dark. I was on the phone with our district leaders getting ready to tell them our numbers for the week. I saw a deer running toward the road. I said, "Deer!" But she kept going. She didn't slow down. Then the deer hit the side of the car. She screamed, and then said, "I thought it would stop!" I got off the phone with my poor district leader who had heard all of this. And then I busted up laughing. Deer don't stop for cars. She learned that one real fast. And then she proceeded to speed home. The car is dented, but not broken.

2. Judy: Judy is doing ok. I can tell she is getting tired. I would be too if I was in that situation. I don't know how she does it. Honestly, I would lose my mind if I was stuck with people that I didn't want to live with. Ok, I have had that experience, and I almost did go crazy. But I had ways to escape. She doesn't. She is stuck there. The car doesn't work most of the time, she has two little kids, and since the government shut down, she has absolutely no income. Oh, and she can't get a hold of the lady who was going to get her into housing. So she has no options right now. But she has decided to get a job. She is has applied to a bunch of places, and is going to continue until she gets a job. Yesterday we fasted for her, but I don't know what will happen. We are afraid that it will be more than she can handle right now. I don't think it will be, but there is always that fear in the back of my mind. I pray for her all the time. With her, I am learning patience and long-suffering.

3. Brianna: I finally figured it out!!! I know why now is not the time. Her grandpa is the branch mission leader. We have to go to him because he has a special needs son that is hard to handle. So anyway, we get there and he's not home, but is will be shortly. We talked to his wife for a while. We got on the subject of Brianna and asked her how that situation might be able to change. What she thought would help. And as we were talking, it hit me. She is ready. Her mom is not. For the first time in 20+ years, she is reading the Book of Mormon. For the first time, she is praying. For the first time, her testimony is being kindled. So, as we talked, I began to understand that what Brianna needs is for her mom to be in the right place. I don't think it will be her coming back to church yet, but she Shari is ready, things will happen really fast. And I wouldn't have been able to get that revelation without Sister Baier. So with Brianna, I am learning that it's not always the person, but the people around them.

4. Service: We have been challenged by our STL (Sister Training Leader) to serve at least one member a day. We have tried this and found that as we do so, as well as other things, that we are seeing the Spirit work more here. We randomly had a member call us and tell us that she'd found a guy who's girlfriend at Duke is a member. They are both from Malawi? who said he might like to meet with us sometime. So, just by showing our love and devotion to God's children, we are being directed to more of his Children. I've leaned that service can make all the difference.

I have learned here in Oxford it's not always about finding people and then teaching them everything in 3 sit downs, and then baptizing them. It's about patience, and love, and sucking-it-up when it hurts. It's about relying on the Lord, and not being focused on the numbers. It's about serving the members every day, and working with them. Helping them to understand how to do missionary work. It's about having love, a pure love, from Heavenly Father for everyone you meet. After about 3 weeks of being here, I could not go down the street without seeing people in white. That came from a pure love. I want that back, and the above is how I will make it happen. I know that as we keep His commandments, ALL OF THEM, we are blessed. We learn, we grow, and eventually, we can become exalted.

I love this Gospel, and I love teaching it. There is nothing better. I say this in the Name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Love, Sister Worthen

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